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For many years, my family believed I had autism. They treated me different, as if I was less than human, being constantly judged on every tiny thing I did. Every move, word, and facial expression. Eventually, I stayed quiet and locked myself away since I hated being judged constantly. I hated the humiliation. I watched others jealously as my peers could make the same errors I was allowed to and be forgiven. 
Everyone else, all ages and walks, could be human and make little mistakes. I could not. I had to be perfect. Every single mistake, I was ashamed of and embarrassed.
Until I decided to challenge them. 
Last year, I saw new doctors, all of which looked at me with a surprised look- "you have that?"
Earlier this year, I was admitted to a hospital due to weight loss. My doctor connected me with a professional, a doctor in mental health. 
I explained to him what I felt and what happened over the years. 
He looked at me after scribbling some stuff down. 
"How could anyone think you have autism? They were treating the wrong thing."
"I was thinking the same thing." I sat there, waiting for an answer. 
"Sir, what you have is Bipolar Disorder. We'll get treatment set up right away."
"Bipolar disorder? Is that serious?"
"Yes. Left untreated, it can be very messy. Its probably what brought you here. You are under a great amount of stress. I can see why you are so miserable."
"I'll say… I don't want to be in this despair anymore."

Okay, all that aside, the point is that people are people. Just because they have a disorder doesn't mean it merits you to mistreat them or put them under extreme scrutiny constantly. Yes, they do need help and treatment and they will need those little hints to help them. What's not acceptable is constantly getting on them about what they do wrong. There is a difference between humiliation and treatment. 
If they do something  very wrong or makes a big mistake ON PURPOSE, then handle them like everyone else. 
If they do on accident and they are remorseful, then help them. Don't humiliate them. 
 

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I am against non consensual sex.  I am especially against sexually abusing children. I hate hurting people and there is no excuse to hurt those who cannot defend themselves.
Pedophilia is wrong. Its an illness and is not normal. Its taking advantage of those weaker than you.
I am a queer committed to ending sexual violence toward all. Rape is sickening, and pedophilia makes me sick. I want to protect children and love them as people. They are not for anyone's gratification. They are meant to be treasured as the people they are. 
Straight and gay couples that are consensual are the ones that should be allowed to marry. They are of age, and are aware of their actions. They share intimacy, sexual and emotional, and are capable of supporting one another. These are people who are able to love responsibly.
Homo or hetero, I am against pedophilia. 
Even as a transman, its wrong to take advantage of people who are weaker.
Some say that gays are more likely to be pedophiles, but I found this:
 the ratio of sex offenders against female children vs. offenders against male children is approximately 2:1
Again, I am against all pedophilia, I want to stop the exploitation of the LGBT community.
source:
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15…

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Update!!!!

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Hello everypony!
Happy New Year. Commissions are closed, but I will implement a new system of doing things.
I will make a plushie and sell it online instead. This is mostly due to supply and concern for quality. I have a bunch of minky now, so I'll be brewing up some creations.
I'm thinking of making Fluttershy next, or maybe Rarity. IDK. I'll let you guys vote for it.

Thanks everypony!!!!

Mads

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Hello everypony!

On August tenth, I will reopen commissions to the public.
I have three deviants on the list right now.
Twilight- XSamy
Big Mac- Crotchstar
Luna- I-Twistedfury-I
Fluttershy- racconsquee

Here are the plushies I can do:

Twilight Sparkle- 35$
Pinkie Pie - 32$
Rarity- 38$
Fluttershy- 34$ (add angel for 15$)
Rainbow Dash- 39$
AppleJack (hat included)- 35$
Spike- 25$

Cutie mark Crusaders (come with a cutie mark!)
Applebloom- 30$
Sweetie Belle- 30$
Scootaloo- 30$

Stallions-
Big Mac (with harness) 38$
Dr. Whooves- 35$
Shining Armor- 40$
Caramel- 34$
Soarin- 35$
Pokey Pierce- 36$

Other ponies-
Derpy hooves  35$
Lyra- 34$
Dinky Doo- 28$
Bonbon- 35$
Colgate- 35$
Snips- 32$
Snails- 34$
Pipsqueak- 34$
Zecora- 40$
Cherrilee- 35$
Pumpkin Cake- 25$
Pound Cake- 26$
Spitfire- 35$
Diamond Tiara- 34$
Silver Spoon- 34$

Royalty
Celestia- 45$
Luna- 45$
Cadence- 48$
Radiance- 45$
Discord-43$
Queen Chrysalis- 50$

Others-
Changling- 34$
Seapony- 35$
Gilda- 36$
Wynona- 35$
Owliscous- 34$
Tank- 32$
Opalescence- 34$
Gummy- 34$
Phoenix- 35$

Shipping is 10$ within the US. International mail I'll be easy on.
Plushies are about 15 inches in height. They are made of either fleece or minky.
Can be cuddled but don't be too rough.
If dirty, you may machine wash or wash by hand gently.
Details such as eyes and cutie marks are machine embroidered.
Made in a smoke-free home.
Handmade with love in every stitch.

Email me for any questions or leave a comment!
My Email: madsthetaco@hotmail.com

Thanks for stopping by!

-Winkle

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